THE SUNDAY SECTION - 07.19.20

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National Geographic - The pandemic could actually strengthen the U.S. food system. The shock to U.S. food chains from the coronavirus has been a boon to small- and mid-sized farms and distributors. If you’re local check out Mike’s Organic. They have an amazing selection of organic meats, produce, and specialty foods and everything is from small farms and businesses!

goop - The future of Dads. An interview with evolutionary anthropologist Anna Machin, the author of The Life of Dad. Machin explains the upsides, complexities, and challenges of fathering in this moment.

Harper’s Bazaar - Jacquemus Sets Spring 2021 Show in Field of Gold. This show was STUNNING. My favorite setting ever for a show - just beautiful.

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outdoor bar - I recently shared an outdoor bar that I picked up from Home Goods. I was going to use it as a planter for my little herb garden I started but after seeing this one from Serena & Lily, I may have to re think that!

linen pant - I’ve been on the hunt for an easy breezy linen pant to wear on and off the beach over a bathing suit etc. I love this pair! The flax color is great with a white stipe and they also come in all white. 50% off right now with code GREAT making them under $50!

make - I love a good Summer pasta and this one is perfect. It’s light and fresh and easy to whip up on a hot day. Gluten and dairy free? Swap out the pasta and use a vegan ricotta. We’ve been eating a ton of basil in our house so I used mint instead!

nook - I’m decorating a little nook in the boy’s bedroom that I’m so excited to start sharing. They’re going to be in the same room in a matter of months and I want to make this little reading corner special. I’m using this animal wallpaper (it has taken me a LONG time to find one that we all like) and I’ll be doing a simple Belgian linen on their window seat. I’m hoping to order this rattan sconce when it comes back in stock in September! Also how adorable are these bamboo and rope chairs from the same brand? 20% off right now with code BLOOMING.

sunnies - Loving this blush/tan color for sunglasses lately. This splurge pair is the perfect khaki shade!

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THE SUNDAY SECTION - 07.12.2020

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goop - My Morning Routine - How 51-Year-Old Naomi Watts Gets Her Day—and Her Amazing Skin—into Shape

Architectural Digest - Snøhetta Completes a Cabin Designed to Slow the Winds From Nearby Glaciers. The bunk room is my favorite!!! And those views?!

Veranda - 13 Black-Owned Home Brands to Support Now and Always. These brands—and the black interior designers who founded them—are some of the companies that make the industry a better, brighter place.

Apartment Therapy - 3 Rules that 2 Adults Use to Share 1 Open Plan Loft Without Annoying Each Other. Love this article by Shelcy Joseph. Shelcy and her sister have one of my favorite instagram’s of the moment nyxclothes. A must follow!

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watch - At this point you probably already know that the award-winning musical Hamilton is available to watch at home via Disney’s streaming service. We watched it last Friday and ever since I’ve been on the hunt for more films and shows from that time period. If you haven’t watched John Adams yet its great. Its an HBO mini series but available if you have Amazon Prime. The acting is great and very interesting to watch post Hamilton. Click here for the trailer.

listen - I’ve always loved the goop podcast. Its easy to listen too and they have great guests. I was happy to see that they had created a page for anti-racism education and there you will find 7 episodes to listen to. There are also two great listens on Environmental Racism. I listened to Stepping Out of Privilege with Layla Saad back in March but just listened again for a second time. I’m working my way through all of them and you should too! “We need people who are willing to turn within and see: How am I part of the problem?” Saad says.

feet - Last month I was in my dermatologist’s office for my annual skin check. Sitting there in the chair waiting I looked down at my feet - 3 months in quarantine and they weren’t looking so hot. I had been doing a lot of walking outside without shoes and my heels were dry and cracked. It didn't take long for Dr. Dolder to notice (cringe) and say, “I have a cream for that!”. I went home and immediately ordered it from Amazon. The cream is from Germany and it is awesome. I keep it on my bedside table and use it every night. After only three days my feet were so soft and my heels were smooth. Highly recommend!

make - Its finally peach season! This is one of my favorite savory/sweet peach recipes. If you love them on the grill you’ll love them in a cast iron. Click here to try rosemary peach chicken in a white wine pan sauce. PS the mozzarella gets added at the end so you can easily made this dairy free!

dress - A beautiful easy-breezy white dress for summer. Maybe thats why its called the Summer Dress! Runs TTS! Use code ArtemisT20 for 20% off.

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New arrivals from one of my favorites, Bloomist.

Korkidis HOUSE - EXTERIOR MAKEOVER

After spending nearly four months at home I started to think, “There are a few things I’d like to improve around here!”. In all honesty, I had a growing list in my head that started after week two and was added to weekly:) Some of the projects were smaller: reorganize the linen closet and order small baskets for extra soaps and toothpaste, clear out the garage, organize the basement, etc., but some projects were bigger! I’ve wanted to update our kitchen since we moved in but that project requires more saving, so I set out to find a project that was both cost-effective and satisfying.

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EXTERIOR MAKEOVER

PAINTING OUR SHUTTERS

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The color of our front door is Galveston Gray by Benjamin Moore. I love the color! It took me a long time to find this gray - not too dark, but also not too light especially in the sun. We used a super high-gloss paint from Fine Paints of Europe which is easy to clean and still gives it a really fresh feel four years later. You can read more about the paint colors we’ve used in our house HERE.

For the shutters, instead of the high-gloss, we used an outdoor paint in semi gloss. I didn’t want them to be super shiny and also we saved on cost by going with the less expensive brand. To be honest, when they were first painted it took a little getting used to. To my perfectionist’s eye the colors looked slightly different and the shutters felt a touch too light but after one week I fell in love with it.

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power washing our front walkway

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I’m embarrassed to say I never thought of our front walkway as “dirty”. I’m not really sure what I thought, it was always just dark. It never occurred to me that it was originally a different color AND could be that color again! One day our neighbors were talking about power washing and I thought, “I wonder what we could power wash?”. And the rest is history…haha. Here is the power washer we used. We did not use soap on our bluestone and it was super simple to set up. Pro tip: Wear dark clothes - long pants, a long-sleeved shirt, and safety glasses. If the water meets the dirt in the wrong way (which is inevitable) you will be splattered. I was covered in mud! Ta-da!

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THE SUNDAY SECTION - 07.05.2020

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Harper’s Bazaar - Dr. Bernice A. King on the Quest for Racial Justice. I’ve been reading this quote over and over again because its so powerful, one time just isn’t enough. “Power at its best is Love implementing the demands of justice, and justice at its best is Love correcting everything that stands against Love.” - Dr. Martin Luther King

Rip & Tan - Major design inspo alert from this Seattle home featured on Jenni Kayne’s blog. Love Rip and Tan for all things California lifestyle.

GQ - Expert Advice If Your Relationship Is Feeling Some Quarantine-Related Strain. Four ways to keep your relationship healthy when you're stuck inside with one another forever.

Town & Country - The 16 Best Hydrangeas Based on Your Climate and Garden. Are you choosing the right kind for your garden? Also, click here for 9 Summer Flowers and their Secret Meaning.

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Sunday Style - Innika Choo

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coasters - Love these woven coasters from a little shop in Southampton, NY. My girlfriend just surprised me with a set and they are so lovely! They are a bit oversized which makes them feel more like decor than utility!

diffuser - I smelled this the other day and had to share. Its a splurge but the scent is absolutely incredible. So hard to describe - fresh and light - the kind you don’t grow tired of! Treat yourself!

boho beautiful - I recently discovered Island Tribe. The brand makes the most dreamy dresses and caftans and I love the way they mix fabrics and textures. I’ve had my eye on this maxi dress, and I love the rope detailing on this one! Island Tribe is a Black-owned business.

nap - Fancy a nap? Hill House Home just released the newest version of their “nap dress” and I am totally smitten. They also offer matching hair accessories - bow and headband. Thinking maybe the emerald?

hose - Never in a million years would I be thinking about the color of my garden hose pre-covid. Post-covid? Obsessing over this ivory one!

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SUMMER CAPSULE WARDROBE

white maxi dress

Every summer wardrobe needs an easy, breezy, white dress that you can throw on during a hot day or dress up for a dinner date. I love cotton dresses because they’re breathable and washable so you don’t have to worry about “playing” in them. Wear your clothes! This classic silhouette by Jenni Kayne is my favorite this season (you can use code: ArtemisT20 for20% off). This is a great under $60 version and I also found this one for under $150. This is the one I’m wearing in my IGTV. More sizes here and here.

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button-down blouse

This blouse is a great piece for Summer. The weight of it is ideal for the heat and the sleeve length makes it so versatile. Wear it tucked into denim shorts or throw it over a bathing suit and tie it at the waist. I also love a classic button-down like this one, but for summer I thought the collarless style felt fresh. You can find this one in my Fall Capsule Wardrobe.

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white t-shirt

This is my original favorite tee in my closet. I first discovered it when I was working for Theory and bought a couple more of them right before I left. They last and only get better with age (and washing!). If you’re looking for an off-white style, I also have this one. The texture is great!

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layered necklaces

For me, Summer style is defined by basics - white tees, maxi dresses, and soft denim. So how do you make a classic look stand out? Jewelry! When it comes to jewelry I like to keep things simple. Around my neck I wear a tiny initial necklace that my best friend gave me for my 30th birthday. When I want a little more of a layered look, I add necklaces like this wishbone style or this beaded style. I also love this herringbone chain style. I suggest sticking to 2-3 at various lengths!

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denim shorts

I never really wore denim shorts until I found this pair. This is the exact style and color I have. I found the exact same fit in a non-distressed style here in denim and here in black. They are nearly sold out everywhere but wanted to link in case this is your size or you wanted to look it up in the future! Looking for an alternative under $100 style? This pair is great and is under $60. The fit is called the “cheeky” and they’re very flattering! I have them in the black too! Looking for a pair of white shorts? Love this creamy colored pair!

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Light Summer Denim

When I think of Summer denim I want something that is either white or light! I have this denim pair and its the best light wash for Spring, Summer, and even into Fall. I love the hem on these - it’s perfect for showing off a great sandal or for a barefoot night at the beach. This style is also a great alternative to white denim for bicycle riding and cool summer nights. They’re high waisted and easy to tuck in summer blouses our wear with a bathing suit. Looking for a great pair of white jeans? I love these!

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Cotton linen sweater

When you first think of a Summer wardrobe your mind doesn’t immediately think “sweater” but you’ll use one more than you think! A great light cotton sweater is a closet essential for this season. Breezy nights, fighting off mosquitos, I love wearing this one with shorts or throwing it over my shoulders with a maxi dress. This sand colored one is also under $100 and would be great into Fall!

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white sneakers

It’s no secret that I’m obsessed with these sneakers. They’ve been to Europe and back with me, are machine washable, and have been worn countless times over the last two years. To be honest, I don’t know what I was wearing before them! Actually I do…my converse! I still love them but for Summer, these are so easy to slip on and go and their insanely comfortable. You won’t be disappointed!

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woven hat

A great hat is the most essential Summer accessory. I love this classic Panama style from one of my favorite small businesses, Hat Attack. It comes in a natural style, and this black one as shown above and offers SPF protection from the sun. More about the brand - Hat Attack is a family owned business based in the Bronx, NY and all of their products are made in the USA. I can attest to the quality and craftsmanship which is so important when it comes to hats - they last year after year and travel well!

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brown sandals

I love these sandals. They are one of the best under $100 styles I’ve ever worn. The leather is so buttery soft and they feel like you’re wearing a glove. I’m wearing the light taupe color. I often get asked about the Hermes Oran sandals. I LOVE and am obsessed with them but they are probably one of the biggest splurges in my closet. That being said, are they worth it? For me they were but its such a personal answer. If you’re going to love them every.single.time. you put them on and they’re going to give you a little pep in your step? Then yes! Save up and go for it! I store mine in their original box and treat them with kid gloves when I’m not wearing them - a pair of shoes like these should last you a LONG time!

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woven bag

A natural woven bag is the summer essential! This one is great because it can be worn crossbody for day or as a smaller top handle bag at night. I’ve also had my eyes on this gorgeous ivory woven style in leather. Would also be great for Fall!

5 SUMMER LOOKS FOR UNDER $50

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The last couple of weeks have been HOT in Connecticut! I’m not complaining…this is what we’ve been waiting for on the East Coast. I find myself reaching for my light, white, and breezy pieces lately like this skirt from Walmart Fashion. Their Scoop line offers an amazing variety of on-trend classics at affordable prices, without scarifying quality. I bought this blouse a few weeks ago and can’t stop wearing it! Love styling it with layered necklaces and a pair of denim shorts.

Time and Tru is another favorite of mine. They offer the best basics like this t-shirt and this ivory linen jacket (and this olive field jacket). I also love this easy to wear white eyelet dress. Looking for beautiful Summer pieces this summer that won’t break the bank? Head to Walmart Fashion to look great while beating the heat this season!

PS I’ve had my eye on these AMAZING Celine tortoise sunnies since last Spring!

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THE SUNDAY SECTION - 06.27.20

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goop - What to Wear Now That You’re the “Outdoorsy” Type. Finding yourself outside a whole lot more? Here are some outfit ideas for looking good while breaking a sweat.

National Geographic - Here’s hot to stop the virus from winning. The only reason we have been able to “open” back up on the East Coast is because we all spent three months in quarantine. The masks and the distance MUST continue through the summer to prevent another major quarantine this Fall.

Architectural Digest - I call this kitchen porn. Love the mix of open shelving and cabinets. Feels like a happy median that would save my marriage LOL.

Harper’s Bazaar - Keedron Bryant - “The 12-year-old “I Just Wanna Live” singer, who recently signed with Warner Records, opens up about fighting racial injustice, getting name-checked by President Obama, and why making music gives him hope”.

Elle - Everything You Need To Know About The Newly Formed Black In Fashion Council.

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watch - Knives Out - Frank put this on the other night (after seeing it got a 97% on rotten tomatoes) and it was really good! Murder mystery with a twist - a film you can’t stop watching until the end. Highly recommend!

landscape - we’ve been going back and forth on what to do in our back yard. At the beginning of Spring I made a case for a “French courtyard vibe” using pea stone gravel and a bistro set. Our back yard is very tiny so the thought of losing almost all the grass has had me a touch concerned and I haven’t been able to fully commit! Click here for some beautiful inspo I stumbled upon during one of my many late night google seshes.

clean - Linking this again because I’ve received so many questions recently! Here is the power washer we used. Before and after post coming soon to the blog!

dress - Found this little black Ulla Johnson dress on sale and I love it! It’s the perfect mix of sweet and chic for summer and you can wear it into Fall.

bake - I know its Summer and not really baking season anymore but I can’t help but look at my overly ripe bananas and think banana bread. Can’t remember if I’ve shared this one on my blog yet so here it is - the best banana bread, ever.

shorts - The under $60 shorts I can’t stop wearing.

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Throw a Chic, Safe Summer Party—with Help from an Epidemiologist and an Event Planner

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WHAT TO WEAR - UNDER YOUR SUMMER WHITES

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Summer is here which means lots of sun, spending time outside, and my favorite, wearing white dresses! I always get asked about undergarments and without the right slips in your closet, getting dressed can be a challenge. This one is my tried and true go-to for myself and my clients. Treat your undergarments very well and they will last for a long time (I’ve had this one for 5+ years). I wash mine by hand and always hang to dry!

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THE SUNDAY SECTION - 06.20.2020

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PBS - Ten Little Known Black History Facts. As I continue to educate myself, I found PBS to be a great resource for articles and short films like this one.

National Geographic - Remembering ‘Red Summer,’ when white mobs massacred Blacks from Tulsa to D.C.

goop - Understanding Environmental Racism and How to Fight It.

GQ - How to Do More Push Ups in Just Two Weeks!

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I am SO excited to share that I’ve become a Jenni Kayne Ambassador! This means I’ll be sharing one to two of my favorite pieces each month with you AND you can use my discount code ArtemisT20 for 20% off every time you order! Everything Jenni Kayne designs is timelessly classic and effortlessly chic. The quality is incredible and I love knowing that I’m investing in pieces I’ll have for a long time like these mules. I also love this simple style that comes in three colors.

Did you know Jenni Kayne also has a collection for Home? This is one of my favorite coffee table books of all time! It makes the best housewarming gift. I also love this basketweave throw. We’ve had it on our bed but I just moved it to a basket downstairs for the boys to use (pictured above!).

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Juneteenth - June 19th may be over but the work we need to do to make it a Federal holiday is not. This website was created specifically to educate people on what Juneteenth means and how to spread the word about its importance in your local community.

watch -There are shows that I put on in the background while working at night and then there are shows that I shut my computer for. Still on the fence about The Order on Netflix but I will say it was tough not to watch (and binge). I love starting a show that has two seasons. Less waiting time! Click here to watch the trailer. I would describe it as Twilight meets Dawson’s Creek.

spray - This is the natural spray I use on our family to combat ticks. We also have our lawn sprayed with a natural oil once a month but the best prevention is still a bath or shower every night along with a tick check!

shop - I recently discovered Trouva, a website that shares 100s of small and independent boutiques across the UK and Europe. I was looking for stockists for a new to me brand called Studio Noos and found their “Teddy Mom Bag” at a boutique in London. Immediately went down a rabbit hole! How lovely is this framed poster for a children’s room?

dress - I wore this dress to the beach the other night and it is perfect! It’s under $100 and selling out quickly so be sure to check it out fast! It runs big (I’m wearing a size 2) and is a lovely light material for summer. The white one is lined!

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Happy Summer!

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RATTAN & FLORAL

a favorite summer combination

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GARDENING ESSENTIALS AND INSPIRATION

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Over the last month I’ve taken some time to clear out a little piece of our front yard and turn it into something more. Honestly, I can’t even remember what it looked like last Spring/Summer! It’s amazing all the things we notice now that we’re spending 95% of our time at home. The front of our house is landscaped with boxwoods (they were here when we moved in and have done very well year over year) which I love but for this new spot I wanted something a little more “organic” and natural looking. I LOVE lavender but It is pretty hard to grow on the East Coast so I set out to find something similar that would thrive in our location. After a few weeks of pinning, I was able to piece together the look I wanted and started planting! Today I’m sharing the perennials I planted and the tools I’ve been using the most!

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salvia - I love salvia. it looks very similar to lavender but is much easier to grow. there are many variations but I used blue marble and april night.

lavender - I have found lavender hard to grow and mine didn’t come back this year so i’m trying it out in a pot instead. stay tuned!

sage - I planted russian sage last year and it came back this season and looks great. i love the smell of it and overall sage is very hearty and easy to grow.

grasses - I used ornamental feather reed and switch grass or panicum.

cone flower (I prefer purple) - this is not deer REPELLENT so you will need to spray it. I purchased an organic one from our local garden center which contains things like garlic, egg whites, and cloves.

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THE SUNDAY SECTION - 06.14.2020

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goop - Interpreting Weird and Stressful Dreams. Before having children I struggled with sleep insomnia and falling asleep. After I had Luke they all just went away. For the last five years, once my head hits the pillow, I’m out! But not this past month.

The New York Times - The Joy of Vegan Cooking, 60 Seconds at a Time. I found Tabitha Brown’s instagram account last week and LOVE her. First off, her videos are so great and you can’t help but smile when you hear her voice because it is so calming and happy! Brown is a vegan chef and creates easy to follow and delicious recipes.

National Geographic - What I discovered traveling the world as a Black woman. On a 65-day trip to 32 countries and in wake of devastating loss, a writer finds sisterhood and healing in daring journeys.

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steal vs. splurge

Love the Hermes Oran sandals but not the hefty price tag? I found these almost identical style for $150.

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rattan chair - I’ve had my eye on this driftwood chair. Its definitely a splurge but because our back yard is too small for an outdoor sitting area (other than the dining table) I think this would be a nice alternative for sitting in the grass and working, reading, hanging out.

clean - I’m going to do a complete post on our front entry makeover on a budget, BUT I have to share this power washer with you. We did our back patio and front walkway and the difference is crazy! I can’t believe I never realized how dirty they were.

recipe - Sick of banana bread? This swirled blueberry lemon thyme cake looks delicious!

watch - If you haven’t already, you need to watch the documentary 13th on Netflix. It is an eyeing opening look at post-slavery America, the 13th amendment, and the loop hole that was used to create a system of mass incarceration and fear.

kid-proof - This mattress topper - we are FINALLY buying a new sofa for the family room (I feel like i’ve said this a million times already) and because its our highest traffic area I’ve been looking for a way to make it more family friendly. I saw “toppers” on sofas when I was in Europe and loved the look.

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My love for rattan continues…



BEACH READY ON A BUDGET

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THE SUNDAY SECTION - 06.07.2020

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Harper’s Bazaar - Why You Need to Stop Saying "All Lives Matter". “Let me be clear: stating that black lives matter doesn’t insinuate that other lives don’t.” by Rachel Elizabeth Cargle.

Brené Brown - Brené talks to Ibram X. Kendi on How to Be an Antiracist. Kendi is a New York Times bestselling author of How to Be an Antiracist and the Director of the Antiracist Research and Policy Center at American University.

Marie Claire - These 10 quotes on race and racism are important.

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Here a few new-to-me accounts that I followed because I was inspired by their fashion and loved their style:

babba - Babba C Rivera

aurorajames - Aurora James

nycxclothes - Shelcy & Christy

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jewelry - I LOVE this New York based jewelry company, Oma The Label. They are nearly sold out after their launch yesterday and after one look at the collection, you can see why! These simple gold hoops are PERFECT for everyday wear. I also have had my eye on this “mama” necklace from BYCHARI.

linens - I was so happy to discover this amazing linen brand based in Westchester, NY (a few towns over from where I grew up!). Linoto is a small business and offers customers an incredible assortment from bedding to towels to smaller gifts. I ordered two sets of these linen coasters.

listen - This goop podcast on investigating instead of reacting. “Investigating what’s underneath the rage can help us then articulate—more clearly—our values,” says Rhonda V. Magee, professor of law at the University of San Francisco and author of The Inner Work of Racial Justice. 

design - If you’re a neutral/minimalist lover like I am you’ll love following designer Kelly-Ann Baptiste from Pure Collected Living. Follow along here. I love this recent post of hers - I’ve been wanting to cut branches for a large vase in our dining room and she just inspired me!

shave - in an effort to be more sustainable, I have been investing in products that last longer or products that offer refills with biodegradable or compostable components. This week I learned about the Oui the People razor - it is an award-winning, made for sensitive skin, AND lasts (a long time). Purchase the razor now and order refills later. No throwing out a plastic one every couple of months.

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A curated list of brands that I’ve loved for a while and some new to me this week. Support them online:

golde - obsessed with their turmeric cacao blend for a couple of years now. Add it to smoothies or make a latte!

The Koop - New York based. Candles made from coconut and soy wax with recyclable vessels or can be used as a beverage glass after use.

Bolé Road Textiles - Beautiful pillows and blankets. Love this collection of grey and ivory styles.

nom. - Beautiful art made of string fibers and wood. Love this piece.

Tove - An absolutely stunning clothing brand. Follow their gorgeous feed here. Shop the line in the US via Net-A-Porter.

Ebi - Plant-based postpartum care.

Very Lovely Soles - Love these simple black sandals!

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‘Racism in America is like dust in the air. It seems invisible – until you let the sun in. Then you see it’s everywhere. As long as we keep shining that light, we have a chance of cleaning it’ – Kareem Abdul-Jabbar

WHAT I AM DOING TO BE ACTIVELY ANTI-RACIST

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“No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.” - Nelson Mandela

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READ/FOLLOW

Why you need to stop saying, “All Lives Matter” an article by Rachel Cargel. Click here to follow Rachel on Instagram.

The Conscious Kid

Chrissy Rutherford

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Black Visions Collective

NAACP

Minnesota Freedom Fund

George Floyd Memorial Fund

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SIGN PETITION

If you haven’t already, sign this petition on change.org for justice for George Floyd. You may think that your one signature doesn’t matter, but it does. There are now almost 12 million signatures. TOGETHER we can bring about change.

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AT HOME

A book for me - I’m not a big reader. I wish I was. Of course I read online and articles on my phone all day long, but I never just sit down with a book. So for me, instead of ordering White Fragility from Amazon with the risk that I wouldn’t read the entire thing, I purchased the audiobook here so I can listen to it (while I’m cooking, driving, walking, etc.). If you are not like me a prefer a physical book, I have found White Fragility in stock HERE.

Books for the boys - Change starts at home with our children. I will continue to have age appropriate conversations with both Luke and Harrison. Click here to read this NPR piece on talking about race with young children.

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This is just the start. This is only three days of reading and researching, googling, and listening, clicking, and reflecting. This is only the beginning. It is not enough to be anti-racist, we must be actively anti-racist. The killings of George Floyd, Breonna Taylor, and Ahmaud Arbery are crimes against humanity. As difficult as it can be to find the right words to say it pales in comparison to the suffering of BIPOC in this country. Today I am committing to these two things:

1. The Sunday Section - Sharing more books, recipes, podcasts, brands, and small businesses by and owned by BIPOC in this weekly blogpost.

2. For the rest of 2020 I will make a $50 donation each month to the NAACP and a $50 donation to Black Visions Collective.

Again, this is just the beginning. This is not just about one instagram post or one blog post for me. I’m committed to being an active voice in the fight against racism in America. I hope you’ll join me.

THE SUNDAY SECTION - 05.24.2020

THE SUNDAY SECTION

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Town & Country - The 18 Must-Read Books of Spring 2020

Architectural Digest - A look inside the Hamptons home where Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis spent her summers. It’s for sale.

goop - A Full-Body, No-Equipment Workout with Melissa Wood Health. its been a while since I worked out so this one using your own bodyweight was perfect for me.

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Ethereal and on sale for MDW

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coffee - How to brew better coffee at home with these steps. We don’t have a traditional coffee maker at home and since Frank is the only one that drinks it we’ve found that a French press makes more sense. In the morning we boil a big pot of water and I use some for tea, and he uses the rest for coffee. I just ordered him this pretty white one for our anniversary…wait that sounds like its more for me haha!

grow - How to regrow romaine from a stem. Being at home for 70 days during a pandemic makes you very resourceful. I try to only go to the grocery store once every two weeks (which is a far cry from what we used to do - probably 4 x a week) which means that once we run out of something, thats it. Things start to get a little dicey in the kitchen around day 10! Something I just started doing was potting our old lettuce. You know, the one that comes with a little bit of dirt and roots at the bottom. Stay tuned and click here for a how-to with romaine.

DF + GF - I have been following a semi dairy and gluten free diet for almost a decade now. Tp read more on what caused this change click to read this post. I was never diagnosed with an allergy to either however eliminating them from my diet changed my life and health dramatically. So, thus began my search for replacement foods, the two biggest being yogurt and the occasional piece of bread (I really enjoy a good chicken salad sandwich!). Well after years of searching, I found both! This coconut yogurt is incredible. It’s low in sugar, creamy, and delicious. This bread it hands down the best GF bread out there. My favorite flavor is the 7 ancient grains.

watch - Normal People on Hulu. We just started watching a couple of nights ago and so far I really like it! Each episode is only 30 minutes long which was surprising at first but makes it even more binge-worthy. If you’ve already watched and love and are wondering if there will be a season 2, read this!

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you asked, I answered.

Where can I go for budget bathing suits? I love H&M for stylish styles that won’t break the bank.

How do I style non-denim shorts? My favorite style of non-denim shorts is the paperbag. They’re usually a touch high waisted and flattering on ever body type. Tuck in a fitted t-shirt, wear with a bodysuit, or cotton blouse.

Favorite facial sunscreen? Hands down this one. I also like using this stick for face.

Favorite straw hat? I love this one from Hat Attack. It is an easy fit and the style will work with every face type.

Styling dark clothes for summer? I actually love wearing black in the summer. Look for a feminine dress like this one (less expensive one here) and pair it with brown leather sandals and a straw bag for an elegant summer look!

Favorites from Walmart right now for a girl on a budget?



Memorial Day Shopping

white sneakers

the best slip ons for summer

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denim

a favorite style and so flattering

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at home

neutral pieces we have and love

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my wishlist

SHOP MY CLOSET - SUMMER DRESSES

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SPRING STYLE ON A BUDGET

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Achieving great style doesn’t mean you have to break the bank! This Spring, look for staples like this white maxi skirt and this striped t-shirt from Walmart Fashion to update your wardrobe. I love Walmart for their stylish and affordable pieces - most are under $30!

They recently launched their SCOOP line in stores and I can’t get enough of the new pieces for Spring and Summer. I was blown away by every piece that I ordered especially this jumpsuit. It is so incredibly soft and not sheer - the perfect weight for lounging at home or taking the boys for a walk on a nice day.

If you’re looking to update your white denim this season, I love this pair . They’re high-waisted and have just the right amount of stretch. Pair them with these espadrille sneakers for the perfect casual but dressed look! This Spring capsule from Walmart has everything you need to get up and feel good while staying home this season!

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Thank you Walmart for sponsoring this post